Daygame Course London | Transform Your Dating Confidence
So, daygame London, here I am.
I’ve just arrived in London, and this Saturday and Sunday, I’ve got three of my coaches flying in to host one of our weekend training courses. Now, these Daygame Course London weekends are incredible. What we do is take you out into everyday places around London and show you how to start conversations with women you find attractive.
Now, this course is not about trying to pick up women. It’s about helping you develop courage and overcome fear. It’s about developing your self-confidence and giving you freedom in your dating life.
Why Most Men Need Daygame in London
At the moment, like most people, you’re probably stuck on dating apps and dating websites. Maybe you’ve met a girl at a dance class. But overall, your options are extremely limited.
On this course, you’re probably going to speak to about 30 women on day one and 30 more on day two. That’s 60 new women you’ve never met before in your life.
Independent of the outcomes – whether clients go on instant dates, exchange numbers, or meet up in the evening – the reason I love these Daygame Course London weekends is because of the freedom it gives you.
How I Learned Daygame – A Quick Story
When I first learned how to approach a woman during the day, it felt like magic. And the truth is, I learned it from one of my clients.
He turned up to a weekend course when I was only coaching in bars and clubs. He was a catastrophe in the night sessions. I had my little speech prepared the next day: “What you’re doing isn’t working. Let’s break it down and start again.” But he told me, “I’m amazing during the day.”
Next morning, I watched him – and to my surprise, it went really well. I said to him, “If you coach me on how to do that, I’ll hire you.” And I did. He worked for my company for three or four years before setting up his own business.
He taught me the basic approaches, and I added in the psychological coaching elements that took it to another level.
One Small Change That Makes a Huge Difference
Here’s something practical we teach on every Daygame Course London.
When you’re starting a conversation, say “Excuse me” loudly, then pause and wait for eye contact before speaking. That pause does so much:
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It signals that you want to speak
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It removes pressure if she does not stop
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It allows your words to land
Some of my clients used a technique where they’d say “Excuse me,” then couldn’t speak until they’d taken off their sunglasses and tapped their side – creating a small pause. That moment is the difference between dating success and failure.
How We Help You Overcome Approach Anxiety
There are a few ways we help clients overcome fear. These tools are used every single time on our Daygame Course London.
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First, we balance thoughts by labelling feelings: “A part of me feels anxious” instead of “I feel anxious.”
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Second, we use the word “but” to flip the sentence: “A part of me feels anxious, but I want to go and compliment her anyway.”
That one sentence changes lives.
We also teach:
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Power posing: Stand strong, like the British military. It energises you.
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Affirmations: “Just do it” or “This will make a good story.”
These shift your mindset and help you take action instead of staying stuck.
The Most Common Mistake in Daygame
Where most guys go wrong – in London or anywhere – is they don’t have the right goal.
A guy says: “I want to get her number” or “I want to take her for drinks.” That’s a terrible goal.
A much better goal is to be honest with yourself. What do you actually want? Do you want a hook-up? Do you want a relationship?
Once you’re clear, you change your behaviour accordingly. If you want short-term fun, just say:
“I’m staying nearby. Take my number. If you fancy coming over later, let me know by 5.”
Women appreciate honesty. You’re both adults. If it doesn’t work for her, no problem – move on and meet someone it does work for.
How We Do Number Exchange on the Daygame Course London
For years, we had clients frustrated about getting numbers but not getting replies. So, we flipped it. Now we give our number instead.
That changed everything.
I tested it myself – 17 conversations in an hour. Thirteen women texted me. I ignored them. A month later, I texted “What are you doing right now?” and nine replied instantly.
Why? Because I had clarity, intent, and confidence – and I used the full system we teach on the Daygame Course London.
The Art of Instant Dates
Once you’re in conversation, don’t let it fizzle out. Treat it like a movie. You meet in the first scene, and it progresses in the second.
You do that by inviting her to join you:
“I’ve got 5 or 10 minutes. I’m grabbing a coffee. Join me.”
You’re leading. You’re not asking permission. And if she says she’s busy, cool – let it go or offer a clear next step:
“I’m doing this tonight – text me if you want to come.”
How to Flirt, Tease and Create Attraction
This part is key to the Daygame Course London. Once you’re in the conversation, it’s about teasing and breaking rapport.
Do not agree with everything. Be playful.
“Barcelona? That’s boring. I thought you were interesting.”
This creates attraction. People on Instagram often comment negatively when they see me do this – but what they miss is the woman laughing, smiling, and showing interest. That is the magic of real flirting.
If You Want a Deeper Connection, Tell Stories
If your goal is more serious – say a relationship – then it’s all about storytelling.
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Your childhood experiences
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What drives you now
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What you’re looking forward to
These stories show your depth. In advanced courses, I get professional models to say a word, and clients respond with their earliest memory. Why? Because every film takes you back to the main character’s childhood. That’s how connection is built.
Frame Control: Who Leads the Conversation?
This is the final layer of the Daygame Course London system.
Frame control is simple. Either you’re in her frame, or she’s in yours.
If she asks a question and you answer directly, you’re in her frame. Instead, build mystery. Avoid answering right away. James Bond does not reveal everything.
That behaviour is magnetic. And we teach it in depth on the course.
Daygame Course London
I’m currently near Spitalfields Market – one of the best daygame locations in London. Great vibe. Lots of people socialising. A perfect place to train.
Later today, I’ll be filming some first-person demonstrations with Nathalia. Tomorrow and Sunday, I’ll be uploading vlogs that show some behind-the-scenes footage of what actually happens on the course.
It’s always fascinating to see the transformation that takes place over just one weekend. From the nerves on day one to the relaxed confidence by the end of day two – it never gets old.
Written by Gary Gunn
Gary Gunn is an internationally accredited coach with 17 years of experience coaching single men.
He has spent years creating proven, real world systems that help men meet, attract and date the women they desire. He is also the best selling author of a book on confidence and dating.
Gary has taught in over 30 major cities worldwide and has coached more than 1,200 men globally through group courses, video coaching and one to one training.
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