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5 Things Ordinary Men Do Wrong in Dating (That Kill Attraction)

5 Things Ordinary Men Do Wrong in Dating (That Kill Attraction)

Written by Gary Gunn, June 12, 2025

Most men are not failing in dating because of bad luck. They’re failing because of bad habits. They say the wrong things. Focus on the wrong goals. Show up in the wrong energy. And...

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5 Inner Habits That Instantly Shift How Women Respond to You

5 Inner Habits That Instantly Shift How Women Respond to You

Written by Gary Gunn, June 7, 2025

Most men try to fix confidence by changing what they do. They learn lines. They rehearse conversations. They read tips. But real change doesn’t start on the outside – it starts within. The men...

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10 Micro Habits That Make You Instantly More Attractive to Women

10 Micro Habits That Make You Instantly More Attractive to Women

Written by Gary Gunn,

Most men think they need a full personality overhaul to be more attractive to women – They don’t. The truth is – small actions, done consistently, change how you think, feel and carry yourself....

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7 Habits Of Successful Men With Women | How I Coach My Clients

7 Habits Of Successful Men With Women | How I Coach My Clients

Written by Gary Gunn,

If you ever seen a guy walk into a room and women just seem to notice him – and you think “what’s he got that I don’t?” – it’s not looks or money. It’s...

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You Need To Play The Immediate Action Game

You Need To Play The Immediate Action Game

Written by Gary Gunn, February 25, 2025

When you’re dating someone new, you want to quickly find out who they really are beneath the surface. You need to know their priorities, values, and whether you’re truly compatible. The Immediate Action Game...

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How Hidden Stressors Drain Your Energy (And How to Fix Them)

How Hidden Stressors Drain Your Energy (And How to Fix Them)

Written by Gary Gunn, February 14, 2025

Most people focus on big life stressors, but background stressors – small, unresolved problems can create a constant low-level anxiety that builds up over time. These stressors are subtle, so you often don’t realise...

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Too Accommodating With Women? Here’s How to Fix It

Too Accommodating With Women? Here’s How to Fix It

Written by Gary Gunn,

One of the most common issues I see with men struggling with women is this: they think they’re just being nice and accommodating, but in reality, they’re being submissive without realising it. This isn’t...

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How to Handle Modern Dating Frustrations With Women

How to Handle Modern Dating Frustrations With Women

Written by Gary Gunn, February 3, 2025

Dating today can be frustrating. Ghosting, flakiness, mixed signals – these things make it feel like you’re wasting your time. A lot of men try to cope by changing how they think, telling themselves...

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How To Program A Woman’s Body To Crave You

How To Program A Woman’s Body To Crave You

Written by Gary Gunn, February 2, 2025

Most men approach attraction on a surface level—focusing on words, looks, or status. But deeper connection is built at a physiological level, where a woman’s nervous system naturally associates you with positive emotional states....

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The 15 Levels Of Fear That STOP You Approaching New Women

The 15 Levels Of Fear That STOP You Approaching New Women

Written by Gary Gunn, January 5, 2025

Every man faces challenges when it comes to dating and social interactions, namely a fear of approaching new women. For some, it’s as simple as starting a conversation, while for others, the barriers run...

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