Success Stories from Social Attraction Coaching Courses

Success Stories from Social Attraction Coaching Courses

Written by dating coach for men Gary Gunn - Founder of Social Attraction

Hello, I’m Gary Gunn, founder of Social Attraction. Over the years, we have helped countless individuals overcome various challenges in their dating lives and achieve their personal goals.

Whether it’s overcoming the fear of approaching women during the day, navigating the modern dating scene after a long hiatus, or building a thriving social circle, our personalised coaching programs have proven to be highly effective in transforming our clients’ lives.

In this blog post, we’re excited to share with you three inspiring case studies that demonstrate the incredible impact that Social Attraction coaching can have on people’s lives.

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Client case study #1: Tom’s Transformation

Tom, a 44-year-old man, was stuck in a rut when it came to his dating life. He found it difficult to approach women during the day, which led him to rely on alcohol to build up courage during nights out.

❌ Tom’s fear of approaching women during the day was rooted in several limiting beliefs, including the fear of rejection, lack of confidence, and self-doubt.

❌ This caused him to resort to alcohol-fuelled nights out, where he often felt that he was competing with other men for women’s attention.

❌ This approach left him feeling unfulfilled and unsuccessful in finding meaningful relationships.

We designed a comprehensive program tailored to Tom’s needs. Our coaching process included the following steps:

Mindset Shift: Through a combination of exercises and coaching sessions, Tom’s mindset began to change. He started to believe that he was capable of making meaningful connections with women during the day without relying on alcohol.

Daytime Approach Strategies: Tom was taught effective daytime approach techniques that allowed him to engage women in conversation without feeling invasive or intrusive.

Rejection Management: Our coaches equipped Tom with the tools to handle rejection and maintain a positive attitude despite potential setbacks.

The end result – Through the Social Attraction coaching program, Tom experienced a transformation in his dating life.

He successfully overcame his fear of approaching women during the day and learned a healthier and more effective dating strategy.

This led Tom to meet a 32-year-old woman who fitted in with his new healthier lifestyle, three months after our coaching, and they are now together and still dating.

Client case study #2: Frank’s Journey 

Frank, a 48-year-old divorcee, found himself back in the dating scene after a 20-year marriage with no experience in modern dating; and a lack of confidence in his ability to navigate being single.

❌ After a long marriage, Frank faced the daunting task of re-entering the dating scene.

❌ He struggled with understanding modern dating norms and lacked the confidence to approach and connect with new romantic interests.

❌ This left him feeling overwhelmed and unsure of how to begin dating again.

We developed a customised program to address Frank’s unique needs and concerns, which included the following steps:

Modern Dating Education: Our coaches taught Frank about the latest dating trends and norms, including dating platforms, texting etiquette, and how to understand modern dating.

Personalised Dating Strategies: Based on Frank’s personality, preferences, and goals, our coaches designed a tailored dating strategy that catered to his particular situation.

Confidence Building: Frank was provided with practical tools and techniques to build his self-confidence, including body language, voice tonality, and personal grooming tips.

The end result – Through the Social Attraction coaching program, Frank was able to regain his confidence and successfully re-enter the dating scene.

With his newfound ability to navigate modern dating practices and platforms, Frank went on to date multiple women and enjoy romantic experiences.

Frank’s experience with Social Attraction coaching illustrates the profound impact that personalised coaching can have on individuals getting back into dating a long hiatus; by providing them with the tools, knowledge, and support needed to navigate modern dating.

Client case study #3: Matthew’s Breakthrough 

Matthew, a 38-year-old man, had relied heavily on his friends to meet women throughout his life. However, as his friends settled down and got married, he found it increasingly challenging to meet new people and expand his social circle.

❌ Matthew’s reliance on his friends to meet new women left him feeling isolated and disconnected as they began to marry and settle down.

❌ He struggled with building a social circle and lacked the confidence to approach women on his own.

❌ Had very limited opportunities to meet potential romantic partners.

Our tailored program helped Matthew overcome his challenges and take control of his dating life. This program included the following steps:

Expanding Social Circles: Our coaches guided Matthew on effective strategies to make new friends, engage in social activities, and expand his network.

Developing Independent Dating Skills: Matthew was taught various techniques for approaching and connecting with women without relying on his friends.

Travel and Adventure: Our coaches encouraged Matthew to embrace solo travel and explore new destinations, providing him with opportunities to meet new women.

The end result – Matthew experienced a significant transformation in his social and dating life by undergoing out coaching program.

By helping Matthew expand his social circle, build confidence, and develop independent dating skills, we enabled him to take control of his social and dating life.

Matthew’s journey demonstrates the effectiveness of Social Attraction coaching in empowering clients to lead fulfilling and adventurous romantic lives, regardless of their starting point.


In conclusion, the success stories of Tom, Frank, and Matthew highlight the life-changing impact that personalised coaching from Social Attraction can have on individuals facing various dating challenges.

These case studies demonstrate that, with the right guidance, tools, and mindset, anyone can overcome their limitations and build a fulfilling, thriving dating life.

No matter what obstacles you may be facing, our tailored coaching programs are here to support and empower you in your journey towards personal growth, self-confidence, and romantic success.


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  1. Eastwick, P. W., & Finkel, E. J. (2008). Sex differences in mate preferences revisited: Do people know what they initially desire in a romantic partner? Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 94(2), 245-264. This study examines the role of personal preferences and initial attraction in romantic relationships. The findings suggest that people may not be fully aware of their preferences, emphasizing the importance of coaching and guidance in helping individuals identify and connect with suitable romantic partners.
  2. Greitemeyer, T. (2010). Effects of reciprocity on attraction: The role of a partner’s physical attractiveness. Personal Relationships, 17(2), 317-330. This study investigates the effects of reciprocity on attraction and the role of physical attractiveness. The research highlights the importance of self-confidence and developing skills to initiate and maintain reciprocal interactions in romantic relationships, supporting the need for coaching in areas such as body language, voice tonality, and personal grooming.
  3. MacDonald, G., & Leary, M. R. (2005). Why does social exclusion hurt? The relationship between social and physical pain. Psychological Bulletin, 131(2), 202-223. This study examines the relationship between social and physical pain, showing that social exclusion or rejection can have significant psychological impacts. The findings underscore the importance of rejection management and maintaining a positive attitude in the face of potential setbacks, as taught in the Social Attraction coaching programs.

Written by Gary Gunn

Gary Gunn is a trained coach, accredited therapist and best selling author. He offers proven, evidence-based dating advice for single men.

He has hosted over 1,000 in-person dating confidence courses across the UK and Europe, as well as over 1,500 online courses.

As the head coach at Social Attraction, he leads the team and oversees the training and courses provided, helping countless men transform their dating lives.
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