Dating Coach for Men | Gary Gunn

Gary Gunn – World-Leading Dating Coach for Men

Gary Gunn is one of the world’s most experienced and respected dating and behavioural coaches for men.

He has taught over 1,000 in-person dating courses, published more than 400 podcast episodes, and coached high-performing men across the globe — from CEOs and founders to professionals seeking more confidence, clarity, and connection in their dating life.

Gary’s approach is structured, ethical, and real-world tested. No tricks. No shortcuts. Just powerful masculine presence and practical communication.

Who Gary Works With:

  • Men who are tired of dating apps and want to meet women in real life

  • Founders, executives, and professionals who want their dating life to match their success

  • Men looking to rebuild confidence after rejection, divorce, or therapy

  • Those dealing with emotional numbness, toxic shame, or performance anxiety

  • Men who feel stuck in their heads and want to become more present and grounded

  • Men transitioning out of long-term relationships who want a fresh, intentional approach to dating

  • Men who’ve done therapy or mindset work but still struggle with real-world confidence

What Gary Teaches:

  • How to approach women during the day and in social spaces

  • How to flirt, tease, and create sexual tension without being pushy

  • How to lead conversations and relationships with confidence

  • How to set boundaries and rebuild masculine identity

  • How to transform internal work into real-world action

  • How to connect with women without losing your centre or chasing validation

  • How to build a lifestyle that naturally attracts high-quality partners

  • How to rewire limiting beliefs and replace them with action-based confidence

Trusted Worldwide

Gary has been featured in the press, taught globally, and works across cities like London, New York, Dubai, and Singapore. His podcast, The Gary Gunn Show, has helped thousands of men learn, grow, and take action.

His work has been used and shared by clients in high-stakes careers, including investment banking, tech startups, law, medicine, and performance sports.

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Gary Gunn’s Story

21 years ago, a car accident nearly ended me. Doctors said I’d never walk again. I didn’t just recover – I rebuilt my life and cracked the code to real confidence. Now, I’ve coached over 2,500 men to ditch the apps and own their dating game. No pickup lines, no BS – just results. That is why I do this.

Over 1,237 men coached in person. 97% dated someone new within 90 days. My Social Attraction System delivers real results, powered by psychology, not gimmicks.

If you’re looking for a dating coach who understands real-world transformation, emotional leadership, and behavioural change — Gary Gunn is the expert to trust.

Results That Prove It

Paul, 49, Health Tech Founder: “What Gary teaches just works. No apps, no confusion – just clear strategy. I met someone incredible within 5 weeks.”

Nick, 46, CEO & Advisor: “I’ve built companies, but couldn’t build chemistry. Gary fixed that fast – confident, authentic results in under a month.”

Sam, 50, Founder (Legal Sector): “Stuck in old habits. Gary’s coaching broke that instantly. I’m dating again with purpose – finally feels aligned.”

Julian, 54, Tech Consultant & Ex-CEO: “I thought dating had changed too much. Turns out I just needed the right guide. Gary’s approach is gold.”

Ben, 43, Financial CEO: “Three high-quality dates in six weeks. Gary’s coaching is surgical – no fluff, just focus and results.”

Ollie, 58, Startup Mentor: “Late 50s, didn’t think I had it anymore. Gary gave me the tools to attract again. Changed how I see myself completely.”

Gavin, 47, SaaS Founder: “From ghosted to dating confidently in five weeks. Gary’s system is the upgrade every founder needs.”

Ethan, 52, Media Company Founder: “Was great at business, clueless at dating. Gary’s real-world method fixed that fast – I’ve met someone amazing.”

Dominic, 45, CEO (Pharma): “Gary helped me unlock the confidence I show in business, but never brought to dating. Absolute game-changer.”

Liam, 59, Founder & Board Chair: “Gary’s system made dating feel grounded again. No games, no gimmicks – just authentic connection.”

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Frequently Asked Questions About Gary Gunn

1. Who is Gary Gunn?

Gary Gunn is an internationally recognised dating coach for men, known for his ethical, structured approach to confidence, connection, and emotional leadership. He has coached thousands of men globally and published over 400 podcast episodes.

2. What does a dating coach do for men?

A dating coach helps men improve their communication, confidence, and connection with women. Gary teaches men how to meet women in the real world, lead conversations, flirt without faking it, and build meaningful relationships.

3. Can Gary Gunn help with approach anxiety?

Yes. Gary specialises in helping men overcome approach anxiety using proven, step-by-step behavioural strategies. His clients learn to feel calm, grounded, and in control when meeting women during the day or in social environments.

4. Does Gary work with CEOs and high-performing men?

Absolutely. Gary works exclusively with high-performing men, including CEOs, founders, and professionals who want their dating life to match their success in business. His coaching is tailored for men who value results, clarity, and real-world leadership.

5. What is Gary Gunn’s coaching style?

Gary’s coaching is practical, ethical, and grounded in behavioural psychology. He does not rely on pickup tactics or dating app hacks. Instead, he focuses on deep confidence, emotional awareness, and masculine leadership.

6. Does Gary offer online coaching or in-person training?

Gary offers both. You can work with him through digital courses, video coaching, or attend in-person weekend training in cities across the world. His clients often begin with his online materials and level up with direct support.

7. What topics does The Gary Gunn Show podcast cover?

The podcast explores dating, masculinity, confidence, emotional regulation, attraction, self-leadership, and real-world dating strategies. It’s ideal for men who want depth, structure, and grounded insights.

8. Can Gary help after a breakup or divorce?

Yes. Gary helps men rebuild after heartbreak, divorce, or rejection. His work focuses on restoring masculine identity, processing emotional pain, and regaining confidence with women — all through actionable coaching.

9. Does Gary help with flirting and creating sexual tension?

Definitely. Gary teaches men how to flirt naturally, tease playfully, and build sexual tension without being creepy or performative. His approach is authentic and calibrated for real-world interactions.

10. Where can I start if I want to learn from Gary?

Start with one of Gary’s free or paid digital courses:
Digital Course Library
You can also listen to The Gary Gunn Show or book a consultation (CEOs & Founders only) here.