Clients do not choose me for the certificates on my wall. They choose me because I deliver results.
My qualifications and lifelong training give me the tools, but what truly matters are the transformations I have created for men worldwide.
From CEOs and founders to everyday professionals, I have spent nearly two decades helping men overcome fear, build lasting confidence, and master real-world connection. If you are ready to change your dating life, I am ready and waiting to coach you.
Who is this consultation for?
This consultation is for men who want to talk through their dating experiences and understand what may be holding them back. It is suitable whether you feel stuck confused or unsure about your next steps and want guidance tailored to you.
What happens on the call?
We will talk through your current situation your experiences so far and what you would like to improve. Together we will explore possible next steps and outline a plan that fits your goals and circumstances.
Do you offer in-person or video coaching?
I offer both. Coaching takes place via private video sessions or in person depending on location and availability. This allows me to coach men anywhere in the world.
My Professional Qualifications
- BA (Hons) Degree in Criminology and Sociology
I studied human behaviour from the inside out. I wanted to understand why people do what they do – especially in relationships, power dynamics and social settings. This degree gave me the foundation to decode confidence, attraction, and communication through both psychology and culture. - In-person Meisner Technique Training – Royal Academy of Dramatic Art (RADA)
I trained at RADA, one of the world’s leading acting schools. I completed the Meisner Technique because many men think too far ahead and lose the moment. This training taught me how to coach men to respond in real time stay engaged and connect without planning or rehearsing what comes next. - Voice for Performance – Royal Academy of Dramatic Art (RADA)
Anxiety often shows up in a man’s voice under pressure. When nerves rise the voice tightens and the pitch lifts. This training taught me how to coach men to calm their nerves and speak with control depth and confidence in the moment. - Improvisation Intensive – Royal Academy of Dramatic Art (RADA)
Many men rely on formulas which makes interaction rigid. Trying to get it right kills energy and attraction. This training taught me how to coach men to loosen up have fun and create moments that feel natural unique and alive. - NLP Master Practitioner – Six-month, In-Person Training
I wanted to help men create lasting change – not just feel better for a day. This training in Neuro-Linguistic Programming taught me how to influence thought patterns, shift emotional states, and embed confidence through language and behaviour. I studied it to master the psychology of influence – so my clients could lead, connect, and thrive in any situation. - Accredited in CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy)
I turned to CBT after working with clients who kept looping the same destructive thoughts – “I’m not good enough”, “She’ll never like someone like me”. I wanted a way to break that cycle. This training gave me the tools to help men challenge limiting beliefs and rewire their thinking patterns so they could act with confidence, not self-doubt. - Accredited in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing)
Some clients carried deep emotional wounds – past rejections, shame, even trauma – that no mindset shift alone could reach. EMDR gave me a way to help them process and release what was stuck. I studied it because I needed something powerful enough to clear emotional blocks at their core. - Accredited in EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques)
I noticed how many men carried anxiety in their bodies – tight chest, racing heart, frozen on the spot. EFT helped me offer fast, practical techniques they could use in real time to calm their nerves. I learnt it to give my clients relief when the pressure hits during dates, conversations, or even before leaving the house. - Accredited in TFT (Thought Field Therapy)
When I began coaching men with severe approach anxiety or fear of rejection, I needed a breakthrough method that could go deeper than just talking. TFT provided that edge. It helped me guide clients through fear in minutes, not weeks. I trained in it because I wanted to give men a way out of sabotage that felt instant and real. - Accredited in Art Therapy
Some emotions are too big for words. I took this training because I saw how stuck some clients became trying to explain their feelings. Art therapy showed me how to use creative expression to help men make sense of what they’re feeling – grief, anger, confusion – and move through it. It’s not about being an artist. - Jeet Kune Do Martial Arts – Grade 1 with Distinction
This wasn’t about fitness. It was about facing fear. I wanted to embody courage, precision and self-protection. Created by Bruce Lee, this system is direct and effective – no fluff. It taught me how to move under pressure, stay calm in confrontation, and protect myself and others. - Lifelong Study and Literary Training
I have read over 2,000 books across the past two decades. My study moved from psychology and self development into autobiography and then classic literature. Writers such as Solzhenitsyn, Dumas and Zweig shaped how I understand human nature. Their work taught me that people change through stories not information.
My Experience and Impact
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Coaching and studying behavioural change for over 17 years
This all began with my own transformation. I became obsessed with understanding what drives lasting change in men – not quick fixes, but real identity shifts. For nearly two decades, I’ve studied psychology, communication, and behaviour through every lens, testing what actually works in the real world. That deep commitment now forms the backbone of everything I teach. -
Founded my private coaching over a decade ago
I started to take what I’d learnt and give other men a clear, structured path to change their lives too. It began with in-person coaching and weekend workshops, and has since expanded across the UK, Europe, and beyond. My goal has always been to help men stop hiding and start showing up with confidence. -
Hosted over 1,200 live workshops
Nothing replaces live coaching. These workshops taught me how to help men face their fears, take action, and rewire their behaviour fast. Over the years, I’ve helped thousands of men overcome approach anxiety, ditch dating apps, and meet women naturally in their day-to-day lives. -
Delivered coaching in major cities worldwide
From Berlin to Madrid, London to New York, I’ve coached men in a wide range of cultures and social dynamics. Every city teaches you something different about attraction and communication. That international experience allows me to adapt my coaching system to any environment – making it work wherever you are. -
Delivered thousands of private video coaching sessions and WhatsApp support
Change happens in the details. Through daily mentoring, I’ve helped men stay consistent, get direct feedback, and move forward faster. Whether through structured video sessions or step-by-step WhatsApp support, I make sure no client is left guessing what to do next. -
Coached CEOs, founders, lawyers, doctors, and high-level professionals
I specialise in helping men who are already high performers – men who’ve mastered business but want to bring that same confidence into their personal lives. My coaching is tailored, strategic, and designed to meet them where they are – with zero fluff or guesswork. -
Creator of the Gary Gunn Method
This is the framework I built from the ground up. A complete system that transforms confidence, improves communication, and helps men connect with women authentically – no pickup lines, no gimmicks. Just a clear, ethical structure for success. -
Created a successful suite of digital products
Not everyone can attend in-person training. That’s why I built a full library of online courses, video programmes, and daily challenges – giving men access to real coaching tools they can use anytime, anywhere. -
Best-selling author of the Education in Dating book series
I wrote these books because I wanted men to have something practical, structured, and real. No filler. Just clear tools and mindset shifts they could apply immediately. With eight books published, this series continues to guide men from confusion to clarity in their dating lives. -
Hired by major global brands including Pepsi and eHarmony
When top brands needed behavioural training and confidence coaching, they came to me. I’ve delivered communication strategies and mindset tools for high-performance individuals working under pressure – helping them sharpen how they think, speak, and lead. -
Delivered keynote talks and private training on confidence and communication
From boardrooms to private retreats, I’ve trained individuals and teams on how to show up with presence, speak with influence, and build meaningful relationships – professionally and personally. -
Recognised as one of the world’s leading dating coaches for men
What sets my work apart is real-world application. I coach from experience – not theory. I’m known for delivering results through psychological depth, ethical practices, and a relentless focus on behavioural change that lasts.
Not sure yet?
I’ve worked on myself but still feel stuck. Does this make sense for me?
Yes. Many men who book have already read books taken courses or worked on mindset. The consultation helps identify what is still missing and where action breaks down.
I know what to do but struggle to act under pressure. Can this help?
Yes. The focus is not more information. The call looks at what happens in real moments and why confidence drops when it matters.
I’m successful in other areas of life. Why does dating still feel difficult?
Success does not always transfer across areas of life. The consultation helps uncover the specific patterns that block progress in dating.
I’ve taken other courses or coaching before and didn’t see results. Will this be different?
Many men who book have tried other programmes without seeing real change. During the call you will experience how my approach works and why it produces different outcomes. The focus is on behaviour in real situations not theory.
What if I am not sure I want coaching yet?
You do not need to decide anything in advance. The call exists to give clarity on whether coaching makes sense and what the next step should be.
What will I leave the call with?
You will leave with a clearer understanding of what is holding you back and what needs to change to move forward.
