Gary Gunn international coach


Gary Gunn is a truly original and dynamic dating coach. His advice is evidence-based and honest.”
Eharmony


Gary Gunn’s in-depth training sessions help clients all over the world address their insecurities, cultivate better dating habits, and get fast results in the modern dating scene.”
DatingAdvice.com


“Gary brought a fresh perspective to our sales team, changing the way we think about building and managing relationships. His advice was clear, practical, and made a real difference.” 
Pepsi



Client Success Stories


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Mark, 45, Startup Founder: “I’d been successful in business but felt completely lost in my personal life. Gary didn’t just give me advice – he helped me rebuild confidence from the ground up. I’m now in a relationship with a woman I never thought I could attract.”

James, 42, CEO: “I always felt like I had to hide how much I was struggling with women. Gary made it feel safe to be honest. His support gave me tools, structure and belief – and within two months, I felt like a completely different man.”

Ryan, 48, Architect: “After my divorce, I truly believed my romantic life was over. Gary gave me a reason to try again. His empathy, his precision, and the way he pushed me out of my comfort zone helped me find hope – and love – again.”

Tom, 47, Civil Engineer: “I thought I was too old, too stuck in my ways. Gary showed me that was just a story I was telling myself. His coaching gave me the courage to change lifelong habits – and now I’m dating someone I genuinely care about.”

Alex, 27, Cybersecurity: “For years, I’d buried my loneliness behind a screen. Gary helped me step back into the real world – to start conversations, build habits, and actually connect. I’ve had three meaningful dates in six weeks.”

Daniel, 45, NGO Director: “I was emotionally shut down after a bad breakup. Gary didn’t just give me strategies – he helped me feel again. That guidance got me back out there and into a healthy, happy relationship.”

Chris, 38, Creative Director: “I’d been playing characters around women my whole life. Gary helped me strip all that away. For the first time, I’m dating as myself – and it feels powerful.”

Richard, 45, Franchise Owner: “I’d done therapy, read books, even tried hypnosis. Nothing helped until Gary. His no-nonsense but compassionate coaching gave me the implementation I’d always lacked. I got results fast.”

Steve, 46, Consultant: “I told Gary I needed results, not fluff. That’s exactly what he gave me. No recycled advice – just consistent support and a clear framework. I met my partner seven weeks later.”

Andrew, 26, Tech: “I had zero idea how to meet women offline. Gary coached me through every step – from where to go, what to say, how to handle rejection without losing momentum. It changed my life.”



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David, 41, Financial Analyst: “I always felt shame around women – like I wasn’t worthy of love. Gary helped me face that. He gave me the tools to stop hiding, and now I’m finally building something real.”

Michael, 46, Electrician: “I was scared stiff of speaking to women during the day. Gary walked me through it until I could do it naturally. Now I’m starting conversations every week – and actually enjoying them.”

Paul, 44, Marketing Manager: “I was stuck in a pattern of chasing women who didn’t respect me. Gary helped me stop betraying myself and start leading in my love life.”

Simon, 29, Teacher: “I didn’t know what I wanted. I was just drifting. Gary helped me get honest with myself, cut out the noise, and find someone who genuinely fits who I am.”

Neil, 42, Entrepreneur: “I always looked confident on the outside, but inside I felt like I wasn’t enough. Gary helped me reconnect with that part of me that believes again.”

Brian, 44, Logistics: “I thought I was past it. Gary saw through all that – and showed me I’d just given up too soon. His encouragement brought me back to life.”

Kevin, 50, Engineer: “My confidence had eroded slowly over the years. Gary rebuilt it brick by brick. I didn’t just learn how to date – I learned how to live again.”

Ian, 56, Retired Military Officer: “Coming out of service, I didn’t know who I was outside of uniform. Gary helped me find my identity and learn how to connect as a man, not just a soldier.”

Stuart, 28, Accountant: “I’d buried myself in work. Gary helped me show up again socially. Now I’m making time for real connection – and it feels good.”

Alan, 53, Sales Director: “I kept choosing emotionally unavailable women. Gary helped me break the cycle and start attracting people who actually value me.”


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Joe, 48, Plumber: “After my wife cheated, I thought I was broken beyond repair. Gary built me back up with respect, challenge, and care. I’ll never forget what he gave me.”

Liam, 33, Photographer: “I always felt awkward around beautiful women – like I didn’t deserve their attention. Gary helped me rewire that. Now I feel grounded, present, and attractive.”

Karl, 39, Operations Manager: “I didn’t need more theory – I needed action. Gary held me accountable, got me in the reps, and made sure I followed through. That’s why it worked.”

Elliot, 40, Data Analyst: “Whenever I froze or panicked, Gary was on WhatsApp helping me troubleshoot. That kind of support was priceless.”

Dominic, 50, Property Developer: “At 50, I assumed my time had passed. Gary refused to let me believe that. He showed me how to date with purpose – and dignity.”

Peter, 45, Consultant Surgeon: “I hadn’t dated in over a decade. Gary helped me face the fear, get back into the world, and meet someone who sees me for who I am.”

Gareth, 28, Business Owner: “What really shocked me was how much Gary cares. He never let me drift, never let me settle – and because of that, I changed.”

Adrian, 47, Project Manager: “I’d spent years procrastinating and hiding behind excuses. Gary gave me structure, clarity and accountability – and it flipped everything.”

Sean, 27, Film Editor: “I was quietly miserable for years. Gary helped me take all that emotion and turn it into fuel. I’m not hiding anymore.”

Martin, 44, Builder: “I used to feel like I didn’t belong in the dating world. Gary helped me rewrite that script – now I’m leading, not chasing.”



Ben, 41, Copywriter: “I always felt like I was playing catch-up with women – like I’d missed some unwritten rulebook. Gary gave me that missing piece and helped me apply it in real time. I’ve never felt so grounded in myself.”

Terry, 60, Retired Police Officer:After losing my wife, I never thought I’d date again. Gary gave me the strength to step back into the world with dignity. His coaching gave me more than dating advice – it gave me purpose.”

Ollie, 27, Builder: “I used to think confidence was something you either had or didn’t. Gary showed me how to build it – habit by habit, step by step. I feel like a man again.”

Declan, 45, Logistics: “I spent years avoiding eye contact with women because I didn’t feel good enough. Gary didn’t judge me – he taught me how to show up with presence. That changed everything.”

Raj, 48, Pharmacist: “I kept attracting the wrong women, over and over. Gary helped me understand why – and more importantly, how to change it. That emotional shift changed the trajectory of my dating life.”

Callum, 33, Real Estate: “I hadn’t touched dating since my divorce. Gary gave me practical, step-by-step support – but more than that, he reminded me I’m still a man with something to offer.”

Frank, 40, Carpenter: “Gary didn’t sugar-coat things, and I needed that. He helped me face parts of myself I’d been avoiding for years – and because of that, I’ve finally got my power back.”

Jake, 46, IT Consultant: “My anxiety around women used to control me. Gary helped me move through it, not around it. Now I can be present, hold space, and lead – and women feel that.”

Tony, 43, Logistics: “I grew up believing women only wanted a certain ‘type’ of man. Gary completely shattered that belief – and helped me become the kind of man women naturally respond to.”

Reece, 44, Musician: “I had years of heartbreak bottled up. Gary created a space where I could actually process it and turn that pain into strength. I feel free again.”


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Ewan, 41, Property Developer: “I’d been single for 14 years and genuinely believed something was wrong with me. Gary helped me undo that thinking and guided me through actions that made dating feel possible – and enjoyable – again.”

Nathan, 45, Software Developer: “I thought women just weren’t interested in someone like me. Gary helped me change how I carried myself and how I saw myself. That inner shift got me my first date in years.”

Malcolm, 48, Logistics: “I always felt awkward around women – like I didn’t know what to do or say. Gary walked me through every step until it became second nature. I’ve never felt this confident.”

Darren, 39, Head Chef: “I didn’t know how to flirt, how to lead, or how to stay calm under pressure. Gary coached me through it all. Every week I got better – and now I’ve started seeing someone who ticks every box.”

Joel, 40, Security Manager: “I thought being a good guy was enough, but it wasn’t getting me anywhere. Gary helped me develop presence and power without changing who I am. I finally feel seen by women.”

Ash, 47, Architect: “I’d been ghosted so many times I stopped trying. Gary helped me build resilience, real-world skills, and a dating mindset that works. I’ve now been on four solid dates in the last month.”

Lewis, 42, CEO:I had no structure, no plan – just confusion. Gary gave me a map, stayed with me through the process, and helped me develop actual confidence instead of fake bravado.”

Rob, 60, Retired Firefighter: “I thought dating was over at my age. Gary refused to let me buy into that lie. He pushed me – in a good way – and now I’ve just come back from my second date in a week.”

Harvey, 43, Accountant: “I kept sabotaging things without realising it. Gary helped me slow down, spot the patterns, and rewire them. That changed my dating life and honestly, my entire mindset.”

Miles, 42, Sound Engineer: “Every woman I liked felt out of my league. Gary helped me stop pedestalising and start leading. Now I’m attracting the kind of women I thought I never could.”