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How to Tell Stories to Attract Women: The Bulletproof PAR Method

How to Tell Stories to Attract Women: The Bulletproof PAR Method

Written by Gary Gunn, August 1, 2025

We’ve all been there. You’re in a conversation with a woman you like. You’re telling her a story and suddenly, you notice her losing interest. Eventually, she says, “I need to go.” You’re left...

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Why Embracing Inner Chaos Is Crucial for Success in Dating

Why Embracing Inner Chaos Is Crucial for Success in Dating

Written by Gary Gunn, July 31, 2025

Check out this bad boy. In today’s post, I want to talk about how to embrace your inner chaos and why doing so will make you more successful in your dating life every single...

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How to Feel Better on Bad Days: What I Do When I’m Not Feeling Great

How to Feel Better on Bad Days: What I Do When I’m Not Feeling Great

Written by Gary Gunn, July 29, 2025

You’re not going to feel good every day. In fact, there are plenty of days when things just don’t feel right. In this blog, I’m going to walk you through exactly how to feel...

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Why Learning How to Respect Yourself as a Man Changes Everything

Why Learning How to Respect Yourself as a Man Changes Everything

Written by Gary Gunn,

Instead of asking, “How do I attract her?” ask yourself, “How do I respect myself?” The two are completely linked. When you raise your self-respect, it changes how women respond to you. In this...

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A New Way to Approach Dating Conversations

A New Way to Approach Dating Conversations

Written by Gary Gunn, July 28, 2025

In today’s post, we’re going to do something completely different. I’ve been working on a brand new course for about six months, and I have my notes right here. This course focuses on how...

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Why Seeking Women’s Validation Destroys Your Dating Success

Why Seeking Women’s Validation Destroys Your Dating Success

Written by Gary Gunn, July 27, 2025

You dress well.You look well.But inside, you’re begging for her approval. In this blog, I’m going to teach you why it’s not the way you dress or the way you speak that leads to...

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From Stuck to Confident: How to Build Real Day Game Confidence

From Stuck to Confident: How to Build Real Day Game Confidence

Written by Gary Gunn, July 26, 2025

I was just about to do a day game Q&A until I realized how boring and mechanical it was going to be. Question, answer. Question, answer. Instead, I want to do something more useful....

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Mindfulness vs Flow: Why You’re Aiming for the Wrong Thing

Mindfulness vs Flow: Why You’re Aiming for the Wrong Thing

Written by Gary Gunn, July 25, 2025

I remember talking to this guy who was really calm and relaxed. All he talked about was mindfulness. Be mindful. Be relaxed. Be present. But as the conversation went deeper, I realized something. He...

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How to Control Your Sexual Energy: The Real Key to Power and Focus

How to Control Your Sexual Energy: The Real Key to Power and Focus

Written by Gary Gunn, July 24, 2025

I was in London yesterday and this absolutely smoking hot woman walks onto the tube and smiles at me. I’m sat next to one of my clients who’s on one of my courses. I’m...

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Day Game vs Night Game: What Suits Your Personality Best?

Day Game vs Night Game: What Suits Your Personality Best?

Written by Gary Gunn, July 23, 2025

What’s better for your personality, day game or night game? I’ve been coaching single guys for 17 years, and I’ve noticed something important. There’s a big difference in success depending on your personality type...

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