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Nietzsche and Lust: Facing Desire with Courage and Self-Mastery
When we think of lust, especially in the context of being married or committed to someone, it’s easy to feel conflicted, guilty, or even ashamed. Traditional moral frameworks, whether religious or cultural, often tell
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Exploring the Vagina Dentata Myth: A Cultural Analysis
The concept of vagina dentata, which translates to “toothed vagina,” is a motif found in folklore from various cultures around the world. This myth typically involves a woman’s vagina being endowed with teeth, which
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Alfred Adler’s Top 20 Life Lies | How I Work With Clients’ Negativity
Alfred Adler, a prominent Austrian psychiatrist and founder of Adlerian psychology, introduced the concept of “life lies” – beliefs that people adopt which hold them back from achieving their full potential. I incorporate Adler’s
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Courageous Engagement | Building Resilience in Dating
Courageous engagement refers to the willingness to enter into interpersonal relationships with openness and trust, despite past experiences of hurt or betrayal. This mindset embodies the idea of facing potential vulnerability with a positive
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Adlerian Psychology | The Approach That Underpins Our Coaching
At my coaching practice, Social Attraction, we have found Adlerian psychology to be an invaluable framework for guiding our clients. Unlike Freud and Jung’s approaches, which focus on past traumas and causes, Adlerian psychology
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Viking Confidence & Gaelic Charm: How To Boost Dating Appeal
In the realm of attraction, the allure of historical figures like Vikings and Gaelics is timeless. These cultures, known for their distinct qualities, offer more than just tales of ancient conquests and mystic lands;
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Dating After Divorce For A Man: A Psychologically-Informed Guide
In this article, I explain more about dating after divorce for a man from a psychological perspective. If you’re ready to put yourself back out there, here are some tips to help you navigate
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How I Coached My Client Through a Messy Divorce to a Fulfilling Dating Life
Divorce is a brutal experience, both emotionally and financially. Add kids to the mix, and the situation becomes even more complicated and challenging. The road to recovery might seem long and impossible. Yet, I’m
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The Power of Discipline: How to Conquer Doubt in Your Dating Life
Gentlemen, welcome to a blog post that could redefine your dating life through the power of discipline. Are you tired of telling yourself, “I’ll talk to her later,” only to miss the chance completely?
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