Gary Gunn is a UK based dating and confidence coach for men with over seventeen years of experience helping men improve confidence, attraction, and long-term relationship outcomes.

• Seventeen years of coaching – Extensive real-world experience helping men develop confidence, attraction, and clarity in their dating lives.

• Practical dating advice – Focused on how men actually behave under pressure and how women experience them in real dating situations, rather than abstract theory.

• Global reach and scale – Work followed by over one and a half million people worldwide, with more than one billion video views across platforms.

• High-level private clients – Experience working with founders, CEOs, senior professionals, creatives, and public figures who expect practical results.

• Trusted by global brands – Delivered expert communication and attraction training for international organisations including Pepsi and eHarmony.

• Author and content creator – Eight published books, including one international best-seller, alongside one of the most extensive dating and confidence libraries available across video, audio, and written formats.

Men who work with Gary receive direct, personal guidance focused on improving confidence, attraction, and leadership in their dating lives. The work is practical and grounded in real-world interaction, not theory or generic systems.

Private coaching focuses on developing the underlying behaviours that consistently produce better results with women, including:

• Calm, grounded confidence – Learning to approach and interact with women without hesitation, even in unfamiliar or high-pressure situations.

• Natural conversational leadership – Leading interactions in a way that allows attraction and chemistry to develop without forcing outcomes or relying on scripted techniques.

• Emotional control under pressure – Building the ability to handle rejection, uncertainty, or tests without losing confidence or clarity.

• Stronger self-trust and standards – Developing the confidence to stop settling in dating and make decisions that reflect personal values and long-term goals.

• Leadership presence and lifestyle – Creating a way of showing up that reflects certainty, direction, and presence, qualities women respond to over time rather than momentary performance.

Gary works with a limited number of private clients at any one time to ensure direct involvement and focused personal guidance.

Gary Gunn has worked with thousands of men worldwide, including founders, CEOs, senior professionals, creatives, and men returning to dating after time away.

• Diverse client backgrounds – Clients come from a wide range of professional and personal situations, yet often face similar challenges in confidence, attraction, and consistency in dating.

• Consistent dating improvements – Men commonly report more regular dating opportunities, stronger attraction and chemistry, clearer boundaries, and relationships built on mutual interest and respect rather than uncertainty or compromise.

• Confidence beyond dating – Many clients notice that the confidence developed through this work carries into other areas of life, including communication, leadership, and decision-making.

• Lasting behavioural change – The changes clients experience are not short-term or situational, but grounded in how they show up consistently over time.

• Documented success stories – Over sixty detailed client case studies show how men apply Gary’s coaching to create lasting change in their dating lives.

See 60+ client success stories.

Is Gary Gunn a good dating coach?
Gary Gunn has over 17 years of experience coaching men on confidence, communication, and dating. He has worked privately with thousands of clients through one-to-one coaching, live workshops, and long-term mentorship, with a focus on real-world behavioural change.

What makes Gary Gunn’s coaching different?
His coaching prioritises real-life action, emotional regulation, and identity-level change rather than scripts, gimmicks, or purely motivational advice.

Who does Gary Gunn work with?
Gary Gunn works with founders, CEOs, professionals, creatives, and men returning to dating later in life who want serious, long-term improvement.

Does Gary Gunn focus on dating apps?
While modern dating is discussed where relevant, his coaching places strong emphasis on real-world social interaction and personal confidence.

What results do clients typically experience?
Clients commonly report increased confidence, reduced anxiety, better communication, stronger attraction, and clearer boundaries in relationships.

Gary offers private coaching, small group coaching, digital courses, books, a podcast, and a large library of free content.

Each level of engagement is built on the same principles.
The difference is depth, access, and support.

For men interested in private or group coaching, the next step is a short conversation to assess fit.

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